For a few months now my gf has been acting kinda strange and everything , and last monday she broke up with me. tuesday i tried to figure out what had happened since we had been together for 5 years and all at once this shit happened. she told me that is was just to much for her to try to handle with work and school and me so she needed time to get everything situated, i said ok and asked if she wanted me to just not call her or just try to leave her alone, she said no that it was fine she just needed a lil time. Wednesday i called her to say happy halloween and see how she was, she said she was fine, i went out to where she works to eat lunch with her and she sent me out to her car to get the candy she had brought for the kids, i found her cell phone sitting in her cup holder so i picked it up and it had a new message from one of her guy friends that she also worked with. in the text he said how much he missed her and how he was glad we had broke up, so i read what she sent back to him saying she missed him to and how she was so happy and how nobody knew it was because of him. i went back into the store gave her the candy and let her walk off and then confronted him about it he said they were just friends and that there was nothing going on with them, on her lunch break i took her out side and questioned her bout it come to find out she has been cheating on me for a few months with him so i got pissed and decided to go talk to him again! she runs up to him and tells him to run he takes off to the back of the store and i follow him into the back and start cussing him out and he still denies it well before i knew it i was forced out of the store and banned for life but i told them both i would be back that night to finish it. that night as i went out there i was followed by 2 cops and when i parked was questioned on why i was there i told them i was there to see my gf and they told me that i had to leave and i couldnt come within 50ft of where she works or him, hes scared shitless that im going to kick his ass even tho she has begged me not to. i still love her alot but im never going to get back with her my ? is what do you guys think i should do?